Say you 're concerned about her reputation , " michael crom advises . "

“告诉她，你在乎她的名声，”迈克尔•克罗姆。

Crom speculates that a rise in tmi at work can probably be traced back to facebook ( fb ) and other social media . "

克罗姆认为，职场话唠或许是因为Facebook等社交媒体的出现。

" With the higher levels of unemployment and the increased competition to get a few jobs , people begin to exaggerate and outright lie on their resumes , " says crom .

“僧多粥少，随着失业率上升、求职竞争加剧，人们开始在简历中夸大其词，甚至干脆撒谎，”克罗姆说。

It helps people discover things they have in common , " notes michael crom , an executive vice president at dale carnegie training , who adds that his firm 's consultants often run across people like your coworker . "

他还说，他经常在公司里碰到像你同事这种类型的咨询师。

In fact , employers are seeing an increase in the number of outright lies on resumes , such as changing employment dates to hide an employment gap or listing enhanced responsibilities , according to michael crom , vice president at dale carnegie training .

实际上，据戴尔卡耐基培训学校（DaleCarnegieTraining）副总裁迈克尔•克罗姆称，雇主发现简历中公然说谎的数量正在增加，比如改变雇佣日期以掩盖空档期或者罗列一些夸大的职责。