Outliving your wife is bad enough .

失去妻子的生活已经够糟了。

Love defies time , outliving both its source and its object .

爱藐视时间，比它的来源和目标还要不朽。

And you don 't have worry about outliving your money .

你不必担心寿命比你的钱.

In fact , men are outliving their usefulness .

事实上，人已经过时了，无用了。

That may not please some feminists , but it could be the price women have paid for outliving their menfolk .

这可能会让一些女权主义者不满，但这可能就是女性比男性长命所要付出的代价吧。