Stop arsing about and give me back my shoes .

别傻里傻气的，快把鞋还给我。

Stop arsing about , we 've got work to do !

别鬼混了，我们还有事情要做！

Basically , for the majority of us , who don 't have the golden ticket of a life mapped out for them , there 's a lot of ( technical term ) " arsing about " , before becoming respectable , tax-paying members of society .

可以说，对我们大多数人，为国家纳税并为人尊敬前，尽管确有不少术语涌现，但谁都无法为我们描绘生活的金钥匙。